Surviving the Holidays

December 10, 2014

It's the most wonderful or stressful time of the year?

Well, here it is. The holiday season. We all look forward to getting families and friends together to celebrate and share memories. But with that being said, having a baby in the mix can make things a little more difficult. Everyone wants to see you, and the baby. Splitting time between families can add stress and a cranky baby. My husband and I are from the same town so we are very familiar with the "time sharing." With that being said, here is some advice to make sure everyone is happy and you are able to keep your sanity. 

~Plan ahead. In the beginning of October, it would be a good idea to sit down with your husband/significant other and figure out where you will be dividing up your time and how you'll do it. 

~Communicate. Once you have come up with a plan, stick to it. Then you can let both sides of the family know exactly what you and your family are doing and where you'll be staying

~Be fair. Make sure you spend time with both sides of the family equally as much as you can. But also, pay attention to your baby. Moving back and fourth between houses/places can make them uncomfortable and fussy. So if your baby seems extra fussy or tired, then don't be afraid to tell family members that you may have to take a rain check on whatever you had planned. Remember, baby always comes first. 

~One big event. Try it. You never know, it could be worth it. Try planning a dinner once or twice with both families present and that way you won't have to go back and fourth for meals. It's great time to bond the two sides of the family and they can all see you and the baby.  

Have fun, and don't stress out about it. If planning with everyone schedules becomes too  messy then don't worry about it. You've put the ball in their court and they will just have to do some rearranging to see your family. It's not ALL about what works for them. It's about you too.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving and is enjoying the Christmas season!

xoxo,

Alex